The Ladies Room

An advantage of having passed some milestones is having also reached a point where I can take a different attitude about talking about using bathrooms. A little more informative, a little less paranoid. I obviously don’t need to instruct other women on using the ladies room, so I’m clearly aiming this at my fellow MtF……

Can this blog mix in tech?

Can I convince you all to vote? My real actual expertise is in software and tech. I’ve been aware for a long time that issues from how a computer works to how come I can’t recover my machine taken over by ransom ware are incomprehensible to people. If I wanted to talk about some of……

What can a Woman say?

Every woman out there knows the situation. If you say something you’re a bitch, if you don’t you’re just shaking your head internally at the insensitivity and stupidity of men. Seriously, how can they think that way. Back when I was a guy it seemed so innocent, and I think it just doesn’t occur to……

Reflections

A sideways glance I barely see The girl stands there In front of me I did not know How this could be The creature there Could ere be me? Twas as if I Caught a glance Of someone  else Whilst in a trance So unlike he That used to be A real live girl In……

Self Acceptance, Loss and Validation

What is your goal? This is an important question and I will claim that your happiness depends on your goal. I’ve heard it said that you cannot depend on others for your happiness and I have found that to be more than a little bit true. Yet this missive is not about happiness per se,……

Life Lessons about Transition

It’s been almost three years since I started HRT. It is about three years to the day when I returned from Province town and decided that I could transition. Province town had been the experiment in living full time.  Starting with my return I came off the small dose of testosterone I was still on……

Tiny Face

A half moon Looks up In delight at the sky Whispers words Looking out Over an August sea The rain falls It runs in rivers Cords flow over asphalt She laughs in delight Small face Against the glass Second summer Near the ground Beautiful sounds Only she can hear Beams like iron Bake the tar……

On being happy

I would have to say that this is really not a trans subject. This is a paean to the blessings of a good life, and the joy of choosing attainable goals. I only describe my vision of a happy life. Yours may be different. Mine won’t look like this in ten years or maybe it……

Shells

On the sand we find them Burrowed all around Hardened shells Formed by the soft being within So in life we find them Surrounded all around Hardened shells Masks formed by the soul within Smiling faces without warmth Eyes without life Words with no meaning Greetings with no meaning We search to find Warmth and life within……

Shaded Eyes

Her shaded eyes Close the feelings Deep inside Seated there Watched by stares Pretends she doesn’t care Taunts and words Ever present Swirl around her ears Newborn day Bright and gay Shining eyes Hand in hand Walks the land Smiles with me by her side Ruby lips Tender kiss Nothing more amiss