The Ladies Room

An advantage of having passed some milestones is having also reached a point where I can take a different attitude about talking about using bathrooms. A little more informative, a little less paranoid. I obviously don’t need to instruct other women on using the ladies room, so I’m clearly aiming this at my fellow MtF…… Continue reading The Ladies Room

Can this blog mix in tech?

Can I convince you all to vote? My real actual expertise is in software and tech. I’ve been aware for a long time that issues from how a computer works to how come I can’t recover my machine taken over by ransom ware are incomprehensible to people. If I wanted to talk about some of…… Continue reading Can this blog mix in tech?

What can a Woman say?

Every woman out there knows the situation. If you say something you’re a bitch, if you don’t you’re just shaking your head internally at the insensitivity and stupidity of men. Seriously, how can they think that way. Back when I was a guy it seemed so innocent, and I think it just doesn’t occur to…… Continue reading What can a Woman say?

Self Acceptance, Loss and Validation

What is your goal? This is an important question and I will claim that your happiness depends on your goal. I’ve heard it said that you cannot depend on others for your happiness and I have found that to be more than a little bit true. Yet this missive is not about happiness per se,…… Continue reading Self Acceptance, Loss and Validation

Life Lessons about Transition

It’s been almost three years since I started HRT. It is about three years to the day when I returned from Province town and decided that I could transition. Province town had been the experiment in living full time.¬† Starting with my return I came off the small dose of testosterone I was still on…… Continue reading Life Lessons about Transition

Tiny Face

A half moon Looks up In delight at the sky Whispers words Looking out Over an August sea The rain falls It runs in rivers Cords flow over asphalt She laughs in delight Small face Against the glass Second summer Near the ground Beautiful sounds Only she can hear Beams like iron Bake the tar…… Continue reading Tiny Face